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Quote of the Day and other stuff

Dali Lama

Don’t have a lot of time to blog this morning. Other duties call.

But someone sent me this the other night and it is a powerful message — one worth sharing this morning.

Coincidence … or not: The other day, I mentioned that the Muscatine Rotary Club had accepted me as a member.

Friday, I attended an orientation meeting with four other new members. They are all people I know already — most of them pretty well. It was interesting to get to know them better, however, and to be thrown on to a team with them that will be taking on a fundraising project for the club.

It’s not clear yet what shape that project will take, but I’ll blog about it as details emerge.

What was fortuitous about this meeting is that the group seemed to like an idea I suggested, one that I borrowed from a Rotary club in another community where I used to live. And that gave me an excuse to call an old friend who is involved in that club. It was great to catch up with this friend, someone with whom I hadn’t spoken in quite a while and whose advice I needed to hear.

It’s funny how things work out like that from time to time.

More bloggage: Another friend sent me this link to a funny video on YouTube. For the record, I have NO problem with this scenario when it involves law enforcement. Might make me a little nervous if it involved a roomful of anyone else.

Hope you all enjoy your Saturday.


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PosterFor Christmas, all I asked for was some art to put in my still-new office at MCSA.

This framed poster is what my wife, Nancy, got me. The poster says:

“What we would like to do is change the world…

By crying out
unceasingly
for the rights
of the workers,
of the poor,
of the destitute…
We can throw our
pebble in the pond
and be confident that
its ever widening circle
will reach around the world.”

The image is of Dorothy Day, who helped establish the Catholic Worker movement in New York in the 1930s. The quote is a paraphrase of a longer quote from Love Is The Measure, an essay Day wrote for The Catholic Worker in June 1946.

Given that my new job is at the homeless shelter in Muscatine, where I am now deputy director, the quote used for this poster seems just about perfect for my office.

The poster is a great gift.


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A story about Christmas 1960

Norman Rockwell

Norman Rockwell

Someone — I’m not going to say who — forwarded this email to me. And while I’m not a big fan of chain emails that direct you to forward them on to others, I did like this story. I don’t know who wrote it or where it came from and I did no research to find out. I am simply passing it along.

A year ago, I would have just deleted this kind of email. But if I’ve learned one thing in the past year, it was a central message of this story: No matter what struggles you might be wrestling with, there is something better ahead and you just have to persevere until you find it.
Chris
In September 1960, I woke up one morning with six hungry babies and just 75 cents in my pocket.
 
Their father was gone..
 
The boys ranged from three months to seven years ; their sister was two.
 
Their dad had never been much more than a presence they feared.
 
Whenever they heard his tires crunch on the gravel driveway they would scramble to hide under their beds.
 
He did manage to leave $15 a week to buy groceries.
 
Now that he had decided to leave, there would be no more beatings, but no food either.
 
If there was a welfare system in effect in southern Indiana at that time, I certainly knew nothing about it.
 
I scrubbed the kids until they looked brand new and then put on my best  homemade dress, loaded them into the rusty old 51 Chevy and drove off to find a job..
 
The seven of us went to every factory, store and restaurant in our small town.
 
No luck.
 
The kids stayed crammed into the car and tried to be quiet while I tried to convince whoever would listen that I was willing to learn or do anything. I had to have a job.
 
Still no luck. The last place we went to, just a few miles outside of town, was an old Root Beer Barrel drive-in that had been converted to a truck stop.
 
It was called the Big Wheel.
 
An old lady named Granny owned the place and she peeked out of the window from time to time at all those kids.
 
She needed someone on the graveyard shift, 11 at night until seven in the morning.
 
She paid 65 cents an hour, and I could start that night.
 
I raced home and called the teenager down the street who baby-sat for people. I bargained with her to come and sleep on my sofa for a dollar a night.She could arrive with her pajamas on and the kids would already be asleep. This seemed like a good arrangement to her, so we made a deal.
 
That night, when the little ones and I knelt to say our prayers, we all thanked God for finding Mommy a job. And so I started at the Big Wheel.
 
When I got home in the mornings I woke up the baby-sitter and sent her home with one dollar of my tip money — fully half of what I averaged every night.
 
As the weeks went by, heating bills added a strain to my meager wage.
 
The tires on the old Chevy had the consistency of penny balloons and began to leak. I had to fill them with air on the way to work and again every morning before I could go home.
 
One bleak morning, I dragged myself to the car to go home  and found four tires in the back seat. New tires! There was no note, no nothing, just those beautiful brand new tires.
 
Had angels taken up residence in Indiana, I wondered.
 
I made a deal with the local service station:In exchange for his mounting the new tires, I would clean up his office. I remember it took me a lot longer to scrub his floor than it did for him to do the tires.
 
I was now working six nights instead of five and it still wasn’t enough.Christmas was coming and I knew there would be no money for toys for the kids. I found a can of red paint and started repairing and painting some old toys. Then I hid them in the basement so there would be something for Santa to deliver on Christmas morning.
 
Clothes were a worry too. I was sewing patches on top ofpatches on the
boys pants and soon they would be too far gone  to repair.
 
On Christmas Eve the usual customers were drinking coffee in the Big Wheel. There were the truckers, Les, Frank, and Jim, and a state trooper named Joe. A few musicians were hanging around after a gig at the Legion and were dropping nickels in the pinball machine.
 
The regulars all just sat around and talked through the wee hours of the morning and then left to get home before the sun came up.
 
When it was time for me to go home at seven o’clock on Christmas morning, to my amazement, my old battered Chevy was filled full to the top with boxes of all shapes and sizes.
 
I quickly opened the driver’s side door, crawled inside and reaching back, I pulled off the lid of the top box.Inside was a whole case of little blue jeans, sizes 2-10!I looked inside another box; it was full of shirts to go with the jeans. Then I peeked inside some of the other boxes. There was candy and nuts and bananas and bags of groceries. There was an enormous ham for baking and canned vegetables and potatoes. There was pudding and Jell-O and cookies, pie filling and flour. There was whole bag of laundry supplies and cleaning items.
 
And there were five toy trucks and one beautiful little doll.
 
As I drove back through empty streets as the sun slowly rose on the most amazing Christmas Day of my life, I was sobbing with gratitude.
 
And I will never forget the joy on the faces of my little ones that precious morning.
 
Yes, there were angels in Indiana that long-ago December. And they all hung out at the Big Wheel truck stop.
 
THE POWER OF PRAYER. I believe that God only gives three answers to prayer:
1. ‘Yes!’
2. ‘Not yet.’
3! ‘I have something better in mind.’
You may be going through a tough time right now, but God is getting ready to bless you in a way that you cannot imagine.
 
My instructions were to pick four people I wanted God to bless, and I picked you.
Pass this to at least four people you want to be blessed.
Let’s continue to pray for one another. Here is the prayer: Father, I ask You to bless my friends, relatives and anyone reading this right  now. Show them a new revelation of Your love and power. Amen.
 


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Good things are going to happen

Once upon a time, some of the nice Altar & Rosary Society ladies at Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Melcher, Iowa, pegged me as a future priest.

I’ll pause for those of you who know me to stop laughing.

Anyway, it may have made sense back then. After all, I was an honest-to-goodness altar boy well into my college years. I sang in the church choir and helped freeze ice cream every summer for the church picnic. Both of the priests who served at Sacred Heart during my high school years encouraged me to play football and study for the priesthood at what is now St. Ambrose University in Davenport.

But to a teenage boy, the celibate life of a Catholic priest didn’t sound very appealing. Little did I know back then about how many of those priests were having more sex than I’ve ever had as a married man. OK, so many of them were — well, never mind. Let’s just leave that as a topic for another day.

Back to the priests I knew in high school. They were probably disappointed that I eventually graduated from a college affiliated with the Methodist Church, but I still attended Mass nearly every Sunday morning at Immaculate Conception. Usually with a hangover, I’d plop down in a pew as near to the back as possible. But I went. After all, it was only three blocks from the Morningside College campus in Sioux City, Iowa.

And for many years after college, I attended Mass on most Sunday mornings. In fact, I often joined the church choir wherever I lived. It was a good way to make friends and collect news tips that I often turned into stories in the paper.

But for reasons that even I don’t understand, I stopped going to church regularly five or six years ago. And for the past couple of years I’ve worked on Sunday mornings at a part-time job that has taken on added significance since I lost my full-time job six months ago.

Those past six months have given me plenty of time to think about all of this. Early on, one of my closest friends told me his faith had really helped him a few years ago when he lost his job. “I’m praying for you every day,” he told me recently.

That’s something I’ve heard from many people, including a friend on Facebook, who recently told me: “You haven’t even met some of those people praying for you.”

I am very grateful for their help, because I’m not sure how good I am at praying.

At least that’s what I would have said prior to this morning, when an email and a message on Twitter both made me think God has been listening when I’ve tried to strike up a conversation. In the past few days, I guess you could say I told God whatever happens to me is in His hands. And then I sort of made a proposal: Help me get a good job and I’ll tackle some of the other things I’ve been trying to ignore for too long, including my poor church attendance. The rest are better left between me and God. At least for now.

It’s embarrassing to think I may have needed to lose a job — to which I tied too closely my self-identity for far too long anyway — before I could have that conversation. It’s a good thing God is patient.

But I think I’m beginning to see myself becoming the person I was meant to be. And that gives me a reason for hope on many fronts, including my search for a new job.

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